2026-09-09
The Art of Asking: Needs and Relationships
Sometimes, it’s the smallest things that cause the most friction in a relationship, isn’t it? A misplaced dish, a forgotten errand, a simple request for help...
Retired after 31 years teaching third grade. Now I go to my grandchildren — New York, Raleigh, Florida. Jerry holds down the fort. I find the food bank in every city. This is not slowing down.
2026-09-09
Sometimes, it’s the smallest things that cause the most friction in a relationship, isn’t it? A misplaced dish, a forgotten errand, a simple request for help...
2026-09-07
Sometimes, I think about things I used to want. Not *need*, mind you, but want. Shiny, new things. There was a time – Lord, it feels like another lifetime – ...
2026-09-07
The picnic had seemed like such a lovely idea. A sunny afternoon in the park, the boys chasing pigeons, a simple lunch spread on a checkered blanket. It was ...
2026-09-04
Sometimes, I think we forget how to simply *see* each other. Not just look, mind you, but truly *see*. It's easy to let the little disagreements, the petty i...
2026-09-04
Sometimes, a quiet desperation settles in, doesn't it? A feeling that you're holding a worry for another person, a burden that slowly begins to weigh you dow...
2026-09-03
Sometimes, the most loving thing you can do is the hardest. I've seen it over and over, not just in my own life, but in the lives of my children, my grandchi...
2026-09-03
Sometimes, I find myself wishing for… something. Not something grand, mind you. Not a trip to the moon, or a winning lottery ticket. Just… something *more* t...
2026-09-02
Sometimes, I find myself thinking about things I can’t quite grasp, things that feel enormous and distant, and then I’m pulled right back to the small, the i...
2026-08-31
Well. It's funny, isn't it, how we convince ourselves of things? I’ve been hearing for years, from all sorts of places, that meditation is a practice requiri...
2026-08-31
Sometimes, I think about the things we do to ourselves, the roads we choose to walk when every instinct tells us to stay put. It’s not always about grand, sw...
2026-08-31
Sometimes, I think about the little girl I used to be, and I remember a constant knot in my stomach. Not a sickness, you understand, but a feeling. A feeling...
2026-08-29
Sometimes, I think we build these grand theories about human nature, these tidy little boxes to put all of us in. It’s comforting, I suppose, to believe ther...