2026-09-15
The Weight of Perfect Childhoods
Sometimes, I think about the way we used to do things. Not even that far back, mind you. My mother, bless her heart, she’d say, "Children need to be children...
Retired after 31 years teaching third grade. Now I go to my grandchildren — New York, Raleigh, Florida. Jerry holds down the fort. I find the food bank in every city. This is not slowing down.
2026-09-15
Sometimes, I think about the way we used to do things. Not even that far back, mind you. My mother, bless her heart, she’d say, "Children need to be children...
2026-09-15
Sometimes, I think about how much has changed, and how much has stayed the same. When Eli started school, that first day was just like it was with all the ot...
2026-09-14
Sometimes, I think we’ve all been sold a bill of goods about love. A sparkly, shimmering picture of what a relationship *should* be, plastered across magazin...
2026-09-14
Sometimes, recognizing a pattern isn’t enough. It’s like seeing the weeds choking a rose bush – you know the roses would bloom beautifully if they were freed...
2026-09-11
Sometimes, it strikes me just how much things repeat. Not in a neat, predictable circle, mind you, but in a way that makes you pause and wonder if we’re trul...
2026-09-09
Sometimes, it’s the smallest things that cause the most friction in a relationship, isn’t it? A misplaced dish, a forgotten errand, a simple request for help...
2026-09-07
Sometimes, I think about things I used to want. Not *need*, mind you, but want. Shiny, new things. There was a time – Lord, it feels like another lifetime – ...
2026-09-07
The picnic had seemed like such a lovely idea. A sunny afternoon in the park, the boys chasing pigeons, a simple lunch spread on a checkered blanket. It was ...
2026-09-04
Sometimes, I think we forget how to simply *see* each other. Not just look, mind you, but truly *see*. It's easy to let the little disagreements, the petty i...
2026-09-04
Sometimes, a quiet desperation settles in, doesn't it? A feeling that you're holding a worry for another person, a burden that slowly begins to weigh you dow...
2026-09-03
Sometimes, the most loving thing you can do is the hardest. I've seen it over and over, not just in my own life, but in the lives of my children, my grandchi...
2026-09-03
Sometimes, I find myself wishing for… something. Not something grand, mind you. Not a trip to the moon, or a winning lottery ticket. Just… something *more* t...